Others-Oriented Perfectionism

When you want other people to be perfect and expecting a lot from them, leaving a perfectionist feeling disappointment and frustration because others did not meet their high expectations, resentment when others don’t put in the same amount of effort.

Getting Started can be Hard, especially if you’re an imperfect perfectionist, so, what can you do about it?

So people, I am sure you have all been here before or you wouldn’t be trying to read this post. I have spent the last year and half trying to figure out what my problem is and why I am finding it challenging to get off my ars and do something that I want to […]

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Others-Oriented Perfectionism, Personal Growth

Is saying No a real sentence? Here’s what I think.

Who the heck gets frustrated with themselves when asked to do something you don’t want to do and you think you are obligated and do it? I am one of those historically a people pleaser. not to say that it is always a negative thing, however when it did become a negative thing, I realized

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Others-Oriented Perfectionism, Personal Growth, Strategies

Constructive Criticism or Power-Play. How to trust your own intuition

Well, it has been awhile since I have written last. I have been trying to learn new things and with working regular jobs, time seems to still be a factor. I wanted to talk about criticism. I am sure we have all been criticized before. How do you handle it? Some people really have the

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Others-Oriented Perfectionism, Personal Growth

Is it being gullible or is it not trustworthy? 3 reasons for trust issues…in my opinion

Hi Guys, So what is trust? Actually!      I recently had a conversation with my mom about this very thing. It mostly came up because my eldest keeps breaking curfew and it was not because he is trying to be disrespectful or be bad or defiant, rather loosy goosy and not thinking it really

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Others-Oriented Perfectionism, Personal Growth
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